Be More Kind


Hebrews 13:1-2,"Keep on loving each other as brothers. Do not forget to entertain strangers, for by so doing some people have entertained angels without knowing it." (NIV) 

I haven't really been as kind as I should. However, I often commit myself to be more kind as the day goes by. Our question today is whether we know how much a simple act of kindness may mean to someone. I realized that the other day I boarded a public van. My little sister and I were headed to a remote place that had few vehicles due to the impassable road. The vehicle was full. I sat on the remaining space holding a heavy luggage I had. My sister had to get a space to stand on.

As the vehicle drove through the hilly, curvy road, I could see her struggling to balance in the squeezed vehicle. She looked at me with her tired, innocent eyes expecting a response. I felt a deep pain since there was nothing I could do. A certain lady pitied the little girl, took her and held her. What a relief I felt seeing the smile on my sister's face. I literally cry when I remember that incident.

I realized that God expects us to show kindness to people including a stranger. In this busy world, with lots of evilness, as the child of God, I need to be the light. Even when people don’t seem to appreciate, I do it because that's what God expects of us.

Dear God, thank you for reminding me to be more kind. Show me the people who need my help today. Grant me a heart that cheerfully displays this kindness to your people. Amen

Doreen (Kenya)

Practical Advice


Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. (Prob. 3:5 KJV)


My father was known within our family for his fitting quips, many of which were gleaned from his knowledge of the book of Proverbs. Authored in most part by King Solomon, son of David, it is treasured for its wisdom and timelessness. Recognizing that it was full of practical advice concerning the predicaments we, imperfect people, are always finding ourselves in, my father drew from it to introduce levity into many situations; but at the same time, he was using the sayings to coach us in some life lesson.

When he wanted to advise us in keeping our tempers he cited Proverbs 15:1, “A soft answer turneth away wrath.” When the topic was friendship, he was likely to say, “There is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). To jar us out of a bad mood the chosen adage was “A merry heart doeth good like a medicine but a broken spirit drieth the bones” (Proverbs 15:13). My own personal favorite probably came up more often than it should have when he found my mother to be particularly vexing. It is taken from Proverbs 21:9. “It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” It may not be politically correct, but it was good for breaking the tension.

The findings in this collection speak to our modern sensibilities in surprising ways. A cautionary word concerning the perils of pursuing a dissolute lifestyle, featuring some colorful imagery can be found in Chapter 23: 29-35 (NKJV). To a world where so many people are litigious, Chapter 25: 8-10 (NKJV) offers legal advice. The case for a strong work ethic is made in several places, notably in Chapter 24: 27, 30-34 (NKJV). 

God didn’t intend for us to be set adrift in a threatening world without guidance. He knew we would wrestle with pragmatic issues as well as spiritual ones and he provided relevant instruction for us in the words of Solomon. Finding humor in them like my father did is to be expected, but underneath the surface of these brief soundbites is a current of plainspoken wisdom not to be overlooked.

Dear Lord, Please accept our petitions to grow in knowledge and wisdom. Amen

Carol (NC) 

Just One Thing

 

"I am the vine, you are the branches, he who abides in Me, and I in him, bears much fruit: for without Me you can do nothing." John 15:5 (NKJV) 

I have been met with a smirky little smile several times when I have quoted: "Without Me you can do nothing."

Sitting in my office one day interviewing some new patients, that a pastor had referred to me, I made a wrong assumption. As they were evidently Christians, I thought we were on the same page in regard to our need for Jesus' blessing to accomplish good things. They had a broken relationship that lacked warmth and friendship. The husband was a "I don't need anyone else" type of guy. Of course, this attitude left his wife feeling she wasn't needed and their problems spiraled from there.

He had written a book that was going to be published in the then near future. I was happy for him and mentioned the Lord's gracious help to each of us. He didn't want to hear about needing Jesus as he was as proud as a peacock. Thus, his smirky smile. He didn't realize that without Jesus, His children cannot bear kingdom fruit. I don't think he cared as all a peacock wants to do is to spread his tail and strut.

He didn't understand that there is only one thing God's children need to do each day: all a Christian needs to do each day is to rest in their relationship with Jesus and He will produce what this world needs- Kingdom fruit. 

Dear Lord help us to realize that when we trust You to produce fruit through us- we will be fruitful. In Your name, Amen.

Dr. Bob. AZ

Never Retire


The righteous will flourish like a palm tree, they will grow like a cedar of Lebanon; planted in the house of the LORD, they will flourish in the courts of our God. They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green, proclaiming, “The LORD is upright; he is my Rock, and there is no wickedness in him.” Psalm 92:12-15 (NIV)

I work with a ministry that provides chapel services for retirees who come to the Arizona mountains to escape the summer heat. Last week one of our pastors preached on Moses’ life. Exodus 7:7 (NIV) tells us that “Moses was eighty years old… when they spoke to Pharaoh.” Then he led the Israelites in the wilderness for forty years. Deuteronomy 34:7 (NIV) ends his story: “Moses was a hundred and twenty years old when he died, yet his eyes were not weak nor his strength gone.”

Moses would have fit well into our ministry. Over the years, our pastors’ ages have ranged from 60 to 90 (one year we had a retired missionary who started working with us at 88). Our director is in her 80s. She’s finally retiring this year after 27 years in ministry. They are all wonderful examples of Psalm 92:14 (NIV): “They will still bear fruit in old age, they will stay fresh and green.”

After my husband died, I prayed for a ministry and now, at 75, I will be the next director, one of God's senior saints, continuing in His service as long as he allows. I doubt he’ll extend my life to 120 years, but I hope I will continue to “bear fruit and stay fresh and green” until the Lord calls me home. As our Director says, “There’s nothing in the Bible about retirement.”


Lord, help us to serve you until the end of our days in any way we can. We pray for strength, both physical and mental, to be able to use our days on this earth to glorify you.

Sharon, Arizona

Appearances Can Be Misleading


For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart. 1 Samuel 16:7 (NKJV)

Several months ago after work one night when I hurried through a large discount store in my annual search for tax software I became frustrated and tired of the long walk thru that big box store; so when I saw the telltale vest and badge worn by their employees on a man coming towards me I jumped at the chance to ask him for directions. When I looked up to greet him face to face, I was flustered to learn he was handicapped and wondered if I was putting him in an uncomfortable position. For some reason, with my question tumbling from my mouth I didn’t catch myself and stumble over the words but plunged on ahead. As he moved towards me I saw he had a slow, uneven gait and when he struggled with forming the words of his response I struggled with him to hit the right balance between allowing him the extra time he needed and not letting on that I was thinking anything out of the ordinary was happening. 

It soon became apparent he was the right store employee to have stopped, as he was very knowledgeable and congenial. Of course, I picked that inopportune moment to admit the software he was pointing out wasn’t the brand I was seeking. Kindly, seeing my dilemma and no doubt, the tired look on this old lady’s face, he suggested we look in another aisle. Unfortunately, we didn’t find the item I was looking for there either. At this point, he volunteered that he did his taxes online for free.

Magically he had put me at ease so I confessed I wasn’t brave enough to do that as I was prone to make mistakes. We both laughed and he followed up by saying “Everyone does that occasionally.” “Yes, but I do that more than most,” I ventured and with a brief thank you, our conversation came to a natural end, not petering out awkwardly like I am known for. He gets all of the credit for that. It was apparent he was more self-assured and comfortable in his skin than I am in mine and had a gift for putting the other person at ease. Clearly, I had a lot to learn from this young man.

So many times we prejudge people based on the superficial when a few moments in their company would educate us on what they have to offer. Jesus had an affinity for those that society was quick to label “different”, as He always made time for them. When we shy away from them just because we feel awkward, it is more to our own detriment than theirs. 

Lord, May we strive to see others through your eyes, looking to the inner man, instead of making snap judgments based on outward appearance. Amen

Carol (NC)

Not Just Semantics


If we say that we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.
If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness 1 John 1: 8-9. (KJV)

“Repent---the kingdom of heaven is at hand.” These may sound like the words of some pulpit pounding evangelist, yet they are the first recorded words of Jesus ministry in the Gospels of Matthew and Mark. The word “repent” may strike us as being anachronistic as in many of our churches the Gospel preached is heavy on love and peace, with the notion of “sin” shuffled to the back of the sermon order. But why would Jesus have launched his ministry with this message if it weren’t a crucial factor in our relationship with him?

When confronted with our misdeeds we are prone to stumble over the word “repent”, but Christ makes it clear that confession is a prerequisite for forging a life with him at the lead. We have the same reservations about using the word “sin.” We dodge the truth by saying we were wrong, or that we made mistakes or had errors in judgment or suffered moral lapses, all just dilute substitutes for the real word---sin. It isn’t any less true simply because we like to think of ourselves as more refined and self-aware than Christ’s audience.

If we want to pursue a life with him, we are asked to humble ourselves like children and he, in turn, like a parent nudging her child to admit wrongdoing, asks us to repent. Priding ourselves on being thoroughly modern men and women we struggle with such an old-fashioned concept. We will go so far as to apologize and undergo the momentary discomfort that carries with it, but repent---doesn’t that imply we are guilty of something bordering on the criminal? Or in the very least hint at the existence of some heavenly judicial hierarchy that we are uneasy about appearing before?. Surely many of us are convinced we have nothing more than petty sins on our accounts if indeed someone is keeping score.

There is a delicate dance of sorts that exists between our maker and his progeny, just as there is between us humans and our children As any parent knows, any apology was given solely because it is expedient, coaxed, is half-hearted and no apology at all. A wise parent will make her case, prick her child’s conscience, and then leave him alone to reason with himself.

So similarly Christ doesn’t insert or insinuate himself into our decision making when it comes to owning up to our sins. He puts the invitation to us; it is poised between us like a dance partner beckoning us onto the dancefloor—it is up to us to accept or refuse.

Our Father, Please help us to understand the far-reaching impact of your gracious offer of salvation. Amen.

Carol (NC)

My Life and My Car

Beloved, now are we the sons of God, and it doth not yet appear what we shall be: but we know that, when he shall appear, we shall be like him; for we shall see him as he is (1 John 3:2, KJV).

I drove a used car that compares to my life.

The misused car had sticky food left by children, and pieces broken off the dash could not be found. Driven for so long on empty, the fuel pump didn’t work. Like the car, my problems started many years ago. I did not like sharing toys with my sister. Because I got my way for so long, I became mad when I didn’t. I didn’t automatically say “Hi” to people, so I became unlikeable. I thought everyone hated me.

My daughter, a mechanic, bought the car not working. She installed a new fuel pump, new window motor units, and other things. Just as the car didn’t work properly, Jesus bought me when I was still in sin. The Lord found me and began cleaning my personality. He installed more compassion for even people in the grocery store. Like my bad habits, the car has re-occurring problems. My daughter works on them, and I go to my Fixer of bad habits for help. 

My daughter doesn’t worry about how it looks, and God doesn’t expect me to be perfect either. The car (now getting nearly 30 mpg) and I both are running better than we used to. I looked forward to giving up the car for a better one. God and I both are looking forward to giving up my flesh for a glorified body.

Prayer: Thank you for your Son Jesus so that we can enjoy life better and know You will not leave us in corruption.

Bonnie, Kansas

Lost in a Store

Look up and see:
who created these?
He brings out the starry host by number;
He calls all of them by name.
Because of His great power and strength,
not one of them is missing. Isaiah 40:26(HCSB)

When I was young I think the scariest time was when I was separated from my parents in a store. I looked for them down some aisles, but they were nowhere to be seen. Eventually, a kind store worker saw my dilemma and took me up to the front where my parents were paged. 

Now I don’t get so frantic when life gets scary, because I know that the same God who knows all the stars by name is the same God who has the power to change my circumstances. If He has not changed anything, then I must continue to look up and believe there’s a reason behind the delay. Maybe there’s a lesson to be learned, a trait to modify, or mindset that needs to change. Do you believe that God’s power will work for you? If there’s a delay in His power, are you willing to believe there’s a reason? 

Prayer: Father, I confess that I tend to look at my problems too much and I don’t look up enough. Please, may the same power that created the stars work things out in my current situation for my good and your glory. Amen


Caleb (Wisconsin)

A Homogenized Life

 

"May the God of peace sanctify you wholly: spirit, soul, and body." I Thessalonians 5:23

Many years ago, during the 40's and 50's, fresh milk was delivered daily to my families' doorstep.

As a lad, I was amazed by how the pasteurized quart bottles had cream at the top, which my folks used for their coffee; a skim milk, which we fed to the cats; and, a middle milk, which we used on our cereal. Once homogenized milk became the fad in the 60's, I was disappointed by the cream being equally mixed throughout the milk. I had drawn the conclusion that keeping the cream at the top was better. I was wrong.

This childhood lesson taught me a very valuable principle that has helped me understand life and serve the Lord.

I finally understood that failing to find a balanced/homogenized life frustrates the life of freedom in Christ, and this binds a person. "Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ has made us free and be not entangled with the yoke of bondage." (Galatians 5:1) In salvation, God creates a condition of liberty, or freedom, for the whole person: spirit, soul, body. ( I Thessalonians 5:23)

Stand fast in the freedom from bondage Christ has given you in the new birth.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, thank You for Your designs. Help us to be thankful for and healthy in our spirit, our soul, and our body. We need Your Spirit's help to find a powerful integrated/homogenized life. Thank You, Amen."

Dr. Bob, Surprise, AZ 

Lasting Treasure



Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal; but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also. (Matthew 6: 19-21 (NKJV))

If you go looking for Jesus, the Savior, you will find He isn’t one with a flashy smile, a showboat who peddles parlor tricks like an amateur magician as do so many people who try and speak for Him today. He did not shy away from the performance of miracles when the need arose: He turned water to wine, He fed thousands from five small loaves and two fish, He calmed a turbulent sea with a few words. But He wasn’t an egotist who sought glory for Himself. Instead, even though He knew His stature in the universe, He still humbly submitted to His Father’s will. Jesus was not a shill for His Father, hawking cheap potions for fake cures. He was a faith healer, to be sure, but in the truest sense. He healed the blind, the lame, the leper---He even raised the dead. But He was in His true element when He looked into and healed the soul. Think of His treatment of the Samaritan woman at the well, or of Peter, when after three denials, whom He was willing to forgive over a casual breakfast of fish on the beach.

He preached a gospel of love, for God and for our fellow man, not one of sewing a seed of faith in the form of a financial pledge. When the subject of money was brought up, He valued the widow’s mite much more than silver dropped into the temple coffers by the elite. He knew the tentacle-like hold money could have on a person. That is why the story of the rich young man who came to Him in search of the way to inherit eternal life is such a poignant one. He admitted he had followed all the ten commandments to the letter. Yet, when Jesus confronted him with the most important one, of giving all his worldly goods away to the poor in order to follow the Lord and prove his singular allegiance to God, the young man withdrew in sadness. 

If you search for Jesus, rather than making a financial investment in a prosperity ministry that boasts outlandish returns, why not invest in something far more dear to God, like Mary in the Gospels, by spending time at Christ’s feet? Your return will be more rewarding. In fact, unlike material success, where your satisfaction will always be fleeting, spiritual rewards are enduring. Matthew, the tax collector knew this, and Zacchaeus learned this lesson as well. They are both memorialized in Scripture for trading in a life of shady deals with vast monetary rewards for one of faith and service. 

In our fast-paced, commercially driven world, it is easy to mistake acquiring the latest style or gadget as a means to satisfy the constant need that gnaws at us from within. But true peace cannot be found online or in a brick and mortar store, but in a life of simple communion with Christ. And better yet, it is free!

Blessed Jesus, thank you for bearing with us when we make self-centered choices and for showing us a better plan for our lives. Amen.

Carol (NC)

Our Father Knows Best

"If you endure chastening, God deals with you as a son." Hebrews 12:7

Looking back over my life, I have rarely valued the hard times more than the enjoyable times. I must confess that this is a commentary on the lack of spiritual maturity I have possessed.

Many Christians can testify that the best times in their lives have not been the most pleasurable times, rather the best times were when they walked one painful step at a time holding Jesus' loving hand. In His presence, they found more than they ever imagined.

It was somewhat of a shock to me when I learned about the potential found in the Father's chastening (or child training) when I passed through what my attending physician described as:"you have been given a divine reprieve to a death sentence, enjoy it".

Spirit-controlled believers often feel, contrary to human reasoning, blessed and thankful for the refining pain of earthly tragedies. They have learned that the Lord's love and presence are often easier to experience when the things of this world grow dim. Knowing that it is because of his love that they are being taught, they cling to Jesus. The difficult times of this life are proof that they are loved: "The Lord chastens those whom He loves." (Heb. 12:6)


"Dear Lord, help us to look back over our lives and see in the sands of time only one set of footprints where you have carried us through our sorrow and pain. In Your name, Amen." 

Dr. Bob, AZ

The Power of a Hug

And if you greet only your own people, what are you doing more than others? Do not even pagans do that? (Matthew 5:47 NIV)

Our last pastor was a hugger. Every week he stood at the open church door after the closing hymn and welcomed each person who passed through with a heartfelt, personalized hug. The line was always long and slow-moving as nearly everyone was eager for their turn to be blessed. I am ashamed to say at times I groused at how long it took for the congregation to be processed through, but I was as motivated as anyone for my free hug. I suspect I am not alone in saying that more often than I care to say, other than the occasional handshake, this was the only physical contact I had with another human all week long. Some of us were widows or widowers (for our pastor didn’t shy away from offering his hugs universally to men and women alike), some of us were in a transitional phase between relationships, or worse yet, I imagine there were even those among us who poured out their love all week long, receiving little or nothing in return. Whatever the case, we all appreciated the mission this young man was on to improve the quality of our lives, if only for a passing moment.

Our church no longer has the benefit of this young minister serving among us, but I have noticed an uptick in the warmth within our congregation as we struggle to fill the void left by his absence. Last Sunday I witnessed an outpouring of welcome I doubt I would have seen prior to our young minister’s tenure. A man who was clearly down on his luck was drawn into a warm, inviting hug by one of our ushers. This brought to mind our pastor’s message to indiscriminately welcome others into our midst who don’t fit into our mold. While we have never given outsiders a chilly reception, we are guilty of being somewhat reserved. Our pastor’s example exposed our need to be more inclusive. I suspect losing him jolted us out of our complacency. 

The best leaders do so by example and their influence is a ripple effect that bears witness of them long after they are gone. Sometimes their methods are unconventional and go against tradition, but if we follow their lead of offering comfort wherever we see that it is needed, we will be drawing from the best within ourselves and in God’s world this behavior will not go unrewarded.

Dear Lord, Help us to broaden our reach and offer your warmth to those we may consider to be outsiders, not only as a church but on a personal level as well. Amen.

Carol (NC)

My Manna

"...He humbled you, causing you to hunger and then feeding you with manna..."
Deuteronomy 8:3, NIV

What is it, Lord? 
I question what You've brought... 
I had an idea of what it should be
but this isn't it, it's not... 

What is it, Lord? 
I don't recognize it at all... 
what is this that's been given, 
from Your hand it did fall..? 

What is it, Lord? 
I am struggling to process, 
l think of the mystery You gave
to the Israelites in the wilderness... 

The provision that You choose
that would be their nourishment
even if they didn't understand
but on and on it went... 

Are you asking me, also, 
not to complain but to receive, 
to trust what Heaven determines
for the feeding of my needs...? 

Then, Lord, so be it, 
may I trust what comes from above, 
may I not need You to explain
and may it taste like love. 

Cindy (GA) 

"...to the one who is victorious, I will give some of the hidden manna..." (Revelation 2:17, NIV)

My Demanding Past

"For the sorrow that is according to the will of God produces a repentance without regret, leading to salvation, but the sorrow of the world produces death." II Corinthians 7: 10 NASB

I was sitting in my office chair one morning asking the Lord what He would have me learn that day. Praying Samuel's prayer from long ago: "Speak Lord for Your servant is listening" (I Samuel 3:9), I felt my heart relax and a peace that passes understanding flooded my soul.

My heart kept going back to what we had seen with a group from our church the previous evening. We had seen the popular movie "I Can Only Imagine". My heart was led to the subject of repentance (or turning away from).

Repentance is at the center of an honest confession of our sins that enables forgiveness. I was being taught that there is a sorrow that is the will of God that leads to deliverance, because it produces an abhorrence of the attitudes and choices we had that led to our sinful condition.

Tears came to my eyes as I identified with the star of previous nights movie, an abused young man in his inability to forgive his father even though the father had found salvation later in life. My wife joined me as I cried, I tried to hide my tears, she didn't. My sorrow turned into deliverance without regret as I finally forgave my Dad.

"Help us Father to not be as spoiled children who accept Your forgiveness without giving that forgiveness to others. In Your Son's name, Amen."

Dr. Bob, AZ

A Safe Bet

Your kingdom is an everlasting kingdom, and your dominion endures through all generations. The LORD is trustworthy in all he promises and faithful in all he does (Psalm 145:13 NIV)

In a certain sense, we are all gamblers in life. If we are to forge bonds with others, regardless of the type of relationship, we must go all in if we are to be successful at it, taking our guard down long enough to know and be known.

Unfortunately, all some of us learn when we take the risk of trusting another person on a deep level and are betrayed in return is that we don’t want to put our most precious feelings on the line like that again.

This reluctance to commit may transfer to our relationship with God as well. Opening our hearts and minds to an ongoing communion with God involves a certain element of risk taking too. Only when our eyes shed the scales that keep us from seeing ourselves as God sees us, do we cast about for spiritual fig leaves to cover our shame. We fear we may be exposed as imposters, unworthy of the trust Christ has lavished on us. If we don’t get beyond these feelings of guilt and self-accusation, we risk leading lives that are stunted and distorted, falling far short of the glorious lives Christ has envisioned for us.

God knows what courage it takes to break from the comfort of a life of complacency and self-interest in order to make this new beginning---one promising hardships and challenges, and a level of commitment that far exceeds any of our earthly relationships. Yet he also guarantees us peace, joy, and a camaraderie unlike any we will find in what the world has to offer. We may not reap the money or prestige that sadly, as a society, so many of us have come to equate with a wise and successful wager, but we will know the complete satisfaction of a life well-lived. Going all in on God is the safest of all bets. 

So let the world see you living like a winner because if you have given your life to Christ, you have made the decision of a lifetime. After all, He has promised us an afterlife in which there will be “no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying….no more pain.” (Rev 21:4 NKJV) What earthly pursuit can make such a promise and deliver on it? Trust God---He is unwavering, unchanging, and His words ring true.

Heavenly Father, Please help us to realize trusting you introduces us to an unparalleled closeness, one which will never let us down. Amen

Carol (NC)

 

The Door Is Wide Open

Revelation 3 verse 8;-I know your works, I have set before you an open door, and no man can shut it.


Yes, God loves you so much, he is gracious, he gives gifts that we don't deserve.He has given you an opportunity, and no man can take that away from you. You only have to trust in him and believe & receive what he has given to you.

There may be obstacles on the way but do not give in, listen to the word that says go for it, do not listen to the word that says don't go.Jesus has all authority and he says I am the door, my sheep listen to my voice, they go in and out and find pasture. When he opens, no one can shut, he has the final say, so be grateful and thank the Father for what he has done for you. Move inside that door, take the opportunity, do all that you have to do and wait for God to give you the breakthrough.

God fights for his people, the battle is not yours but the Lord's. Surrender it all to him and see him work it out. Look at our Lord Jesus, the door had opened in Jerusalem for him to die for the people, it was the will of God that he was about to fulfill,and we here Peter saying, Lord you cannot die, and he answered saying, get behind me Satan, for you focus on the things of man and not of God.

Even the devil could not shut that door, then we see Jesus dying for our sins and rising again on the third day, and by his blood, we are now saved from all our transgressions. Glory to God.

People may try to stop you from grabbing that opportunity, or you may be in a fight, and you see many adversaries because of that open door, just know that God's will and purpose cannot be hindered. Keep on praying and bless his name for the open door.

Oh Father,I thank you for the open door that no man can shut, I thank you for your love and faithfulness, I trust in you, you have begun a good work in me, and I am confident that you will bring it to completion, thank you for the Holy Spirit that guides me, and helps me all the way. In the name of Jesus Christ, Amen

Tarupiwa Muzah [Zimbabwe]

The Cross On The Ceiling

"He has said, I will never leave nor forsake you" Hebrews 13:5

Several years ago, I was flat on my back in a hospital recovering from my replaced left hip.

It was the middle of the night and I was feeling mighty lonely in the darkness. Suddenly, I opened my eyes and looked up at the ceiling. My breath was taken away a bit when I realized what stood out in the gloom. As clear as could be was a bright cross directly above my heart on the ceiling. At first, I blinked my eyes to make sure it was there. Opening my eyes again, spookily it was still there.

Then, I began to look around to see if it was a reflection from the hall. As I didn't have a roomie, I knew it wasn't from another person. I tried and tried to figure out how it could be on my ceiling and couldn't.

My heart filled with warmth as I began to yield to God's Spirit and talk to my Lord who had died on the Cross. I knew He was telling me He was with me in all my pain. I then laid there in the dark with my warm heart until I peacefully fell asleep. 


"Blessed Lord, thank you for being the Lord of the painfully lonely. In Your name, Amen." 

Dr. Bob, AZ

A Beautiful Thing

“Leave her alone,” said Jesus. “Why are you bothering her? She has done a beautiful thing to me. The poor you will always have with you, and you can help them any time you want. But you will not always have me.” ~ Mark 14:6-8(NIV)

Your in-home Bible study starts in an hour. You’ve prepared all week with careful study and prayer. Throughout the week there were meetings, family responsibilities, and a visit to a friend in the hospital. Ministry calls, it always does.

This account reminds me that we are to take time to pour out our sincere affection to Christ because of all he’s done. It is far easier said than done; our hectic schedules and to-do lists never seem to end. It’s easy to get caught up in doing things, even good things. 

Christ comes to the woman's defense, admonishing those who criticized her. He reminded them that although it’s important to serve and minister to those in need, it is also important to sit at his feet and worship him. This woman demonstrated her love for Christ by offering an extravagant gift. It made little sense to others, but isn’t that usually the case when we linger long in his presence? Others may think it strange, but there are times when out of genuine gratitude for all that he has done, we’re compelled to remain. 

As I pondered this text, I wondered about the last time I lingered at his feet; and I was reminded once again that even good things can get in the way of doing what is best. I am honestly more like Martha, and it has taken me years to cultivate a heart that willingly chooses to be still. 

There is also an account in Luke 10 when Jesus gently corrected Martha after she complained that her sister Mary was doing nothing to help with preparations for their guests. Jesus reminded Martha that Mary had chosen the better thing. Like the woman who lavished Jesus with the costly perfume, Mary sat at our Lord’s feet and gave him her undivided attention. Both women demonstrated their love by choosing to sit at his feet.

Before we rush headlong into the day, let’s take a moment to sit in his presence and lavish him with love. In the Lord’s estimation, this is a beautiful thing.

Heavenly Father, you long to speak to us. Remind us to sit quietly in your presence before we start our day and help us to recognize our need for solitude. It is in your presence we will find strength. In Jesus name, Amen.

Nydia, NY

Getting Stuck

He lifted me out of the slimy pit, out of the mud and mire; he set my feet on a rock and gave me a firm place to stand. (Psalm 40:2 NIV)

The road to my daughters is a winding one, narrow, with marshes on either side, no shoulder, no guard rails. I would never have traveled it at night had it not been to attend the church play her whole family of five had invested themselves in practicing for a month. There are several turns that are deceptively easy to find in daylight, but at night get lost in the shadows and low beams, so I was not surprised I had missed one. We simply doubled back and this time I was confident I was going the right way and that we would make it on time. Just when I said as much to my son we entered a curve and misjudging the width of the road, ran my rear tire off the pavement into the edge of the marsh. 

When I tried to get us out of the mess I had gotten us in, it merely resulted in the tire spinning in the water and muck. Revving the engine only worsened my predicament. I turned on my flashers and waited, suffering the accusatory groan that came from my son.

What followed was an orchestration of help from many fine people who had clearly been through this scenario before. A passerby called 911 and relayed the dispatcher’s instructions for us to exit the car. Then came the fire truck which blocked off one lane of the narrow two-lane road and directed traffic until a police officer got there. The officer did his assessment of the situation and arranged for a tow truck to come pull the car out. The tow truck hooked a chain to the front of my car and pulled it out unscathed on the first try. 

I was lucky. There was no water in the car, no damage to the body or the engine, just some unsavory debris hanging from the undercarriage that would require a thorough professional cleaning. And we didn’t even have to trudge through the marsh to get to dry land. God had brought the right people to my aid and had seen to it the only thing suffering damage was my pride. A small price to pay.

The coordinated efforts of those good people who helped me are not unlike what God does when we are in trouble spiritually. Like when I turned on my flashers that dark night, admitting I was out of my depth and needed rescuing if we will but signal God He will come to our aid. He will mobilize His forces, the church, friends, family, trained professionals if we will just let down our guard and admit we can’t get by on our own. Even if it means being extricated from the muck time and again by God’s tow truck, He is ready and willing.


Dear Father, Please help us to not be too proud to call for your help when we so badly need it. Amen.

Carol (NC)

Tears Inside Prison

“For you do not delight in sacrifice, otherwise I would give it; You are not pleased with burnt offering. The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit; a broken and contrite heart, O God, You will not despise.” Psalm 51:16-17 NASB

One Day, when I was a prison minister, a Russian man stood up after accepting Jesus as his Savior. As tears streamed down his face he sobbed: “I can’t forget what I’ve done to so many people”. Pictures of terrible things he had violently done to many flooded his mind. Confessing his sins to Jesus had opened a floodgate of pain and pictures of blood.

I helped him the best I could by urging him to put the pain and pictures in the hands of the Lord who died a terrible death on the Cross for all his sins. This calmed him down a bit and his sobbing lessened, but I could tell there was still an ocean of pain straining to be set free.

I then remembered something that I had learned during my career as a psychologist. Pain often must be released the way we sometimes deal with an onion, by unpeeling layer by layer. Cutting abruptly through an onion will often overcome us by what is released.

I still pray for that prisoner that he has learned to not bury those memories when they come up but admit them and place them each time in his Lord’s loving and forgiving hands while living a Psalm 51 life.

Claim the answer to living with painful memories: “No Matter the Crime, One Layer at A Time.”

“Dear Father, please help us to understand that no matter our experiences the answer to living with painful memories is the same as for prisoners: no matter the crime, one layer at a time. In Jesus’ name, Amen.”

Dr. Bob AZ