Practical Advice


Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding. (Prob. 3:5 KJV)


My father was known within our family for his fitting quips, many of which were gleaned from his knowledge of the book of Proverbs. Authored in most part by King Solomon, son of David, it is treasured for its wisdom and timelessness. Recognizing that it was full of practical advice concerning the predicaments we, imperfect people, are always finding ourselves in, my father drew from it to introduce levity into many situations; but at the same time, he was using the sayings to coach us in some life lesson.

When he wanted to advise us in keeping our tempers he cited Proverbs 15:1, “A soft answer turneth away wrath.” When the topic was friendship, he was likely to say, “There is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother” (Proverbs 18:24). To jar us out of a bad mood the chosen adage was “A merry heart doeth good like a medicine but a broken spirit drieth the bones” (Proverbs 15:13). My own personal favorite probably came up more often than it should have when he found my mother to be particularly vexing. It is taken from Proverbs 21:9. “It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.” It may not be politically correct, but it was good for breaking the tension.

The findings in this collection speak to our modern sensibilities in surprising ways. A cautionary word concerning the perils of pursuing a dissolute lifestyle, featuring some colorful imagery can be found in Chapter 23: 29-35 (NKJV). To a world where so many people are litigious, Chapter 25: 8-10 (NKJV) offers legal advice. The case for a strong work ethic is made in several places, notably in Chapter 24: 27, 30-34 (NKJV). 

God didn’t intend for us to be set adrift in a threatening world without guidance. He knew we would wrestle with pragmatic issues as well as spiritual ones and he provided relevant instruction for us in the words of Solomon. Finding humor in them like my father did is to be expected, but underneath the surface of these brief soundbites is a current of plainspoken wisdom not to be overlooked.

Dear Lord, Please accept our petitions to grow in knowledge and wisdom. Amen

Carol (NC)